Guest Blogger :: Rhonda

Along with the modern union comes modern technology, which ultimately revolves around our beloved Internet. Affectionately dubbed "wedding porn," we peruse through the nuptials of strangers, have Martha's centerpiece ideas bookmarked in our favorites and receive blog feeds from celebrity planners... and that's just the list for people NOT planning a wedding. We just can't help ourselves; there's so much cuteness out there it can make your head spin. If you ARE planning a wedding, at the very least it can be a bit overwhelming. One bouquet link leads to another dress link which inevitably leads you to a wordpress featuring the wedding of the most beautiful people you've ever seen in your life with the cleverest ideas, creative photos and all the things you wish you had thought of. Next thing you know the wine bottle is empty, it's infomercial time on the tube and you've e-mailed all your closest friends pictures of things you think you could do better yourself from Etsy.

So let's be rational. Don't get rid of the wine, but definitely sit down with yourself and your beloved, minus the Internet and talk about the things that matter to you most...the things that make you, as a couple, distinctive. It's YOUR wedding.

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