Guestblogger :: Alejandro

Sage Advice From Our Co-Founder

I recently had a chance to "sit down" (over email) with the illustrious co-founder of this savvy blog, Cicely, to interview her for the 2010 edition of the Arizona Pride Guide, a GLBT relocation and resource guide for the state of Arizona. While the focus of the interview was on wedding tips, Cicely's answer to my last question really resonated with me and I think that it will prove to be an invaluable piece of advice for all couples embarking on a lifetime journey together:

Pride Guide: I've known you and your husband for a bit now, so I've had some insight into your relationship... give us a little perspective on what makes your marriage work that you think will help other couples.

Cicely: An old college professor once told me that people have more respect for strangers than they sometimes do for loved ones. That reminds me to show more respect to my partner. Most importantly, keeping a sense of humor is a huge factor in sustaining a relationship. With me believing I am hilarious, and him being confident (he is super witty), we are always making each other laugh. Over time, we have developed deeper laugh lines, which physically show how much fun we have had with each other. That's the only wrinkle I don't mind having.

laugh lines in motion :: Photo by Largo Photography

Check-out the 2010 edition of the Arizona Pride Guide for the rest of my interview with Cicely. The 2010 issue comes out January 13 statewide.  Keep checking for information on the kick-off party! For more information about the Pride Guide, please visit: www.GayArizona.com