Guest Blogger :: Rhonda

Along with the modern union comes modern technology, which ultimately revolves around our beloved Internet. Affectionately dubbed "wedding porn," we peruse through the nuptials of strangers, have Martha's centerpiece ideas bookmarked in our favorites and receive blog feeds from celebrity planners... and that's just the list for people NOT planning a wedding. We just can't help ourselves; there's so much cuteness out there it can make your head spin. If you ARE planning a wedding, at the very least it can be a bit overwhelming. One bouquet link leads to another dress link which inevitably leads you to a wordpress featuring the wedding of the most beautiful people you've ever seen in your life with the cleverest ideas, creative photos and all the things you wish you had thought of. Next thing you know the wine bottle is empty, it's infomercial time on the tube and you've e-mailed all your closest friends pictures of things you think you could do better yourself from Etsy.

So let's be rational. Don't get rid of the wine, but definitely sit down with yourself and your beloved, minus the Internet and talk about the things that matter to you most...the things that make you, as a couple, distinctive. It's YOUR wedding.

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Guest Blogger :: Rhonda

Picture courtesy of Rhonda Lewis Photography

Trust me when I tell you that I have no problem partaking in some night time reception fun, but there is something so classic and invigorating about about attending daytime festivities. From a photographic standpoint, I am literally in heaven with just the right amount of natural light at my fingertips...people look better and the details you've worked so hard to incorporate can truly stand out. And aside from my own selfish photography agenda, day time receptions also have other benefits that may fit into your vision:

Serving a brunch or light lunch buffet to your guests is not only chic, but often budget friendly. You can stick to the basics, but food is also another way to highlight your own personalities as well as possibly both you and your partner's backgrounds and heritages. Ask your caterer about including your absolute favorite foods.

Picture courtesy of Rhonda Lewis Photography

The idea of the signature cocktail is nothing new but is yet another avenue for expression. Feel free to name your own concoction...it's your day. I like the idea of a Bloody Mary bar, but am also drawn to the many recipes that Champagne or prosecco can lend themselves to. Really, everybody looks classy with a sparkling beverage during the day. Don't forget about non-alcoholic options.

Picture courtesy of Rhonda Lewis Photography

Time of year can also play a big part depending on what area of the country you are in, so keep that in mind. Summers have longer daylight times and if you happen to be in Phoenix in the "winter," your guests will certainly appreciate a little afternoon sun on their backs.

Picture courtesy of Rhonda Lewis Photography

Just remember that it is called your wedding DAY...I figure your wedding NIGHT can be reserved for something else.

Rhonda is the owner and wedding photographer for Rhonda Lewis Photography based in Phoenix, Arizona.